20 Ways To Know If He's Into You Prt 1

Like women, men don't always say exactly what they're feeling precisely when they feel it (they like to act all macho and stuff). But guys don't have to say much to know what they're thinking. They simply slip up and hope you don't notice but gurrls, you sure know we know just when they slip.
So, in the early stages of a new relationship, look out for the following signs to get a sense of what he's thinking (you know, we girls always want to know everything).

1. His pupils are huge. Okay i know this sounds like some lie-detector, CIA NCIS thing but honestly, it works. Either you're in a super-dark place and he is trying to adjust his eyes to the darkness, or this subtle signal means he's into you.
Let me explain: "Dilation is a brain response that occurs when you like and are attracted to something," Wood says. So if his pupils are really huge, he is really into you.

2. His eyebrows are raised. People tend to use this subconscious expression to help open their eyes when they like what they see. If he raises his brows ever so slightly while you're talking, it means he's interested in whatever you're saying. So girls, time to say something really funny and watch out for the lifted brows.

3. He shows you his front teeth. "Guys stop smiling like this around the age of 5 — unless they're really happy," Wood says. He might not show off his 32 while casually flirting, but on a really awesome date when he's having loads of fun? Look for the teeth: "When he feels really happy, he's not covering that up,"

4. He smiles above the mouth. Real smiles extend well beyond the mouth: They lift the forehead and give you squinty eyes. If his smile involves his whole face, it means you're genuinely affecting him in a good way.

5. He licks his lips in a cute (not creepy) way. When you're attracted to someone, your mouth produces extra saliva (or so i read on the internet while researching for this piece). In response, he might quickly lick his lips or press them together. But if he licks it slowly then he is creepy (the slower the creepier)

6. He locks eyes with your face — not your eyes. You might think that a guy who is totally enamored by you will find it hard to peel his eyes away. But now that everyone is used to being glued to their phones (pinging and texting and all that), nonstop eye contact can make people feel uncomfortable. So, new rule: If he spends about 80 percent of your interaction looking from your eyes to your nose and lips, he's into you.

7. He takes a deep breath when he sees you. Yes, men do require oxygen. But when he subconsciously takes a deep breath — he'll pull in his stomach and puff out his chest — it's a subconscious way to make his upper body look broader and his waist look smaller, two qualities that make him look more fit and (from an evolutionary perspective) more desirable, Wood says. In other words, he's into you and he's trying to attract you (in our terms? He's flexing!). 

8. He leans toward you when you talk. At a rowdy club, this sign might not hold much

weight. But when he can physically hear you perfectly well and leans in anyway, it means he's interested in what you have to say — and you, in general.

9. He puts his hands on his hips with his elbows out to the sides. Because this stance takes up more space than standing with your arms against your sides, Wood says this is a male power signal that guys use to show physical superiority over other guys. It means he's seeking attention. And if he does it while he's angled toward you? He's seeking it from you. 

10. He touches your knee ("Soft pants!") or tucks your hair behind your ear. When he initiates physical contact under the guise of another reason, it's a test to see how you respond to his touch, Wood says. Because touch is a tool he uses to test your limits, it could mean he's only interested in sex, Wood says. If he really likes you, though, he might pull back extra-slowly and smile sweetly as he does it, which means he wants to take the time to get closer to you.

So there you have the first 10, be sure to check out the remaining half. The other 10 should be published by next week and if you have any signs you know, please share with us, we'd love to learn more.